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Marva Thompson

Marva Thompson was a Jamaican-born nurse who lived in West Baltimore with her husband, Jean-Claude Thompson. She and Jean-Claude married around 2001 and raised their son, Jamal Thompson, in a Jamaican and Haitian household.

Early Life and Family

Marva was born in 1982 and grew up in Jamaica. She was living in Baltimore by approximately 2000, when she met Jean-Claude. Marva was about eighteen and Jean-Claude was about twenty-eight. They married around 2001, and Jamal was born in late 2002.

Marva’s mother became ill when Jamal was approximately nine or ten and died around 2012.

Cultural Identity and Communication

Marva spoke English and Jamaican Patois. Patois came forward when she was worried or tender, especially with Jamal. Alongside “mi pickney,” she called him “mi love,” “mi sweet boy,” and “baby” even after he was grown. A sister in Kingston, a cousin in Washington, D.C., and friends from her Baltimore church contacted her when the 2019 police-violence video circulated.

Marva braided Jamal’s cornrows from childhood into adulthood and sometimes gave him box braids for summer. She warmed coconut oil between her palms and hummed Jamaican lullabies while she worked. The sessions provided regular time together and, during periods of severe stress, gave Jamal an opportunity to rest or speak more openly. She could feel tension in his scalp and warmth at his temples when a migraine was building, and she softened her touch while asking whether he had eaten or slept.

Career

Marva worked as a nurse.

Personality and Communication

Marva was direct, practical, and attentive to changes in her family’s behavior. She often responded to crises by handling immediate needs and giving Jean-Claude or Jamal space to recover before asking for explanations. Her hands were steady in an emergency and gentle when someone needed care; Jamal associated their touch and the smell of coconut oil with the safety of home.

When Jamal reached puberty, Marva gave him a diagram-based, medically direct talk. He later described it as her having “gone all medical” on him.

Family and Core Relationships

Jean-Claude Thompson

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Marva and Jean-Claude built their household in Baltimore after meeting around 2000. Marva supported him during the aftermath of the 2010 Haiti earthquake and remained with him during his July 2021 hospitalization for aspiration pneumonia. As his breathing worsened, she watched his symptoms and inhaler use, recognizing changes he tried to minimize.

Jamal Thompson

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Marva was twenty when Jamal was born. She remained closely involved with him after he left Baltimore for Georgetown and paid attention to signs that he was exhausted, in pain, or withholding distress. Jamal called his parents daily and sometimes called Marva separately for a more candid account of his father’s health.

Major Events

2010 Haiti Earthquake

After the earthquake, Marva arranged for Jamal to stay with one of her sisters while she accompanied Jean-Claude to the bank on January 14. He wired $3,000 to his nephew Michel even though the family needed the money for bills. When he vomited outside the bank, Marva helped him home. She held him while he sobbed and cared for the household through the days when he could scarcely eat or sleep.

June 2019 Police-Violence Incident

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Marva was washing dishes when calls and messages about the circulating video began reaching her. Another sister, in Kingston, asked, “That your Jamal on the news?” Marva recognized his silhouette in the footage. When he returned home, she held him as he cried and stayed with him while he vomited. When he blamed himself for freezing, she told him, “You survived. You came home. That’s what matters.” Five days later, she redid his hair with coconut oil, hummed an old Jamaican lullaby, noticed his exhaustion and headache, and allowed him to sleep during the braiding session.

Jean-Claude’s 2021 Hospitalization

Marva called emergency services when Jean-Claude aspirated during a respiratory crisis in July 2021. She accompanied him to the hospital and remained involved during his treatment and recovery.

Memorable Quotes

“You survived. You came home. That’s what matters.” (Reassuring Jamal at home after the June 15, 2019 police violence.)

“Mi pickney.”

Marva used this Patois endearment for Jamal.

“When’s the last time you ate? When’s the last time you slept proper?”

She asked these questions during braiding sessions when she was checking in on Jamal without pressing him for a full explanation.

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